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优秀的英语散文:如何在职场的宫斗戏中存活
Wherever you are, you cannot oid gossip .
不管你在哪里，八卦都是避免不了的。
There is classroom politics at school, and office politics at work; as long as there are people, there will be politics.
在学校的时候有班级政治，上班之后有办公室政治;只要是有人的地方，就会有政治。
In fact, not all gossips are harmful. Sometimes proper gossip symbolizes a healthy working environment.
其实并非所有的八卦都是有害的，有时候适当的八卦还象征着健康的工作环境。
We were born to like gossip, because this is an important channel for us to get information; in the meanwhile, chatting with acquaintances gives us a sense of belonging.
我们生来喜欢八卦，因为这是一个获取信息的重要渠道;同时，和熟人们闲聊也让我们感到一种归属感。
However, it is an undeniable fact that real life gossip often develops into a ridiculous war and is ultimately no good for anyone.
但是，不可否认，现实中的八卦却常常演变成狗血大战，最后对任何人都没有好处。
How do we survive this unfortunate environment?
我们要如何在这种惨烈的环境下生存?
Well, the simplest solution is this:
其实，最简单的解决办法就是：
Rumors stop here.
流言至于此处。
The nature of gossip lies in spreading, thus the best way to end gossip is to stop spreading the rumors.
八卦的天性就是越传越大，终止它的最好办法就是停止传播它。
Remember, although people often enjoy talking to those who love gossip, they do not really like this kind of people.
记住，虽然大家往往喜欢和那些爱八卦的人交谈，但大家并不真正喜欢这种人。
After all, anyone can understand that they can talk to you about other people today, they may talk about you behind your back tomorrow.
毕竟，谁都能想到，他们今天能跟你谈别人，明天也能在你背后谈论你。
优秀的英语散文：你真的了解痛苦吗?
What is pain? Pain is a reminder. It reminds us our mistakes. Pain is an alarm of uping beautiful days.
什么是痛?痛提醒着我们。它让我们记得过去犯下的错。同时，痛也预示着即将到来的美好。
There are two types of pain in the world.
世界上有两种痛。
First is physical pain like tooth ache, body ache, back pain, neck pain etc. and second is heart pain.
第一种是生理上的，像牙痛，身上痛，背痛，脖子痛等等，第二种是心痛。
This pain has not any medicine yet. This pain only reduced by bearing it. Rumi says The cure for pain is in the pain.
心痛是无法通过药物治愈的，只能通过忍受它而得以减轻。
When we fet God and run after world and pain enters into our life because all the worldly things are painful.
当我们忘记上帝遁入凡尘，痛就走进了我们的生命，因为所有世俗的东西都是痛苦的。
Pain is the only one thing which brings us close to God.
痛是唯一的让我们接近上帝的东西。
In pain we never remember mom or dad or any friend. We just look at the sky and start praying.
在痛苦中我们不会想到爸爸妈妈或者任何朋友。我们只会注视天空并开始祈祷。
God is the only one who understands us and support us throughout the bad time. Every relation in the world remains because of some selfishness and our relation with God is only remains because of love.
上帝是唯一理解我们，支持我们度过艰难时光的人。世界上任何关系的维系都依靠某些个人利益，而我们和上帝的关系却只靠爱来维系。
Pain changes your life. It will increase your conscience.
痛苦会改变你的人生。它会让你满怀善意。
For the first time when you face the pain you feel like going mad.
第一次面对痛苦的时候你像疯了一样。
You cry a lot, try a lot and after that you will pray and now you are on the right path.
你大哭，努力改变，然后你开始祈祷，于是你找到了正确的解决方式。
Everything created by God is for our benefits so do as with pain. Pain is necessary. It opens our heart and mind. It makes balance in our life.
上帝创造的一切都是为了我们好，痛也不例外。痛苦是必要的。它让我们打开心扉。让我们的生命得到平衡。
Pain plays an important part in our life.
痛在我们生命中占据很重要的地位。
Nobody can escape from it even all the angles, God and Goddesses of different religion who came into this world had to bear pain.
没有人能逃脱痛苦，即使是天使，上帝甚至来自各个领域的众神。只要来到这个世界就要经受痛苦。
When we are in pain we try hard to get rid of it and here pain shows us the right path.
当我们经受痛苦时，我们会努力地摆脱它，这时痛苦会为我们指明道路。
We bee very conscious about our Karma which we always fet in our good time.
我们变得特别在意顺境中被我们忘记的因果。
Rumi says These pains you feel are messengers. Listen to them. Some painful situations continuously happen until we learn a lesson from them and every time it changes us.
拉米说：这些你经历的痛苦都是讯号，你要聆听它们。有些痛苦一直伴随我们，直到我们从中吸取教训，每次我们都会被痛苦改变。
Karma. Our karma tells us about our situations. At which directions we are going.
因果。我们的因果告诉我们当下的境况。我们将去向何方。
What we give is what we get.
我们给予什么，就会得到什么。
We should learn to spread happiness if we want happiness in our life.
如果我们想要生活得幸福，我们就要学会传递幸福。
One should learn to watch their action because our actions bee our karma and our karma leads us to happiness or sorrow.
一个人应该学会注意他的行为，因为我们的行为会变成我们的因果，而因果决定了我们幸福还是悲伤。
The best lesson pain teaches us to feel others pain as well.
痛苦给我们最好的教训就是让我们学会感受他人的痛苦。
Pain teaches us how to pray for ourself and for others.
痛教会我们如果为自己，也为他人祈祷。
If you want to escape from your future pains then start spreading happiness into others because pain is a result of our bad deeds. No good deeds give pain. Think about yours actions and ask yourself that what your actions is giving to others.
如果你想避免日后的痛苦就从现在开始把幸福传播给他人吧，因为痛苦都是我们作恶的结果。
行善从不会带来痛苦。反省一下你的行为，问问自己，你的行为会带给他人什么。
When we love someone whole heartedly we tend to give and give and give without expectations.
当我们全心全意爱着他人，我们会孜孜不倦地付出，不求任何回报。
And when we full of thankful to God then we are so happy and everything bees so easy.
当我们十分感激上帝的时候，我们会感到特别幸福，一切都变得顺利起来。
Gratitude is the best way to get rid of your pain. Gratitude solves so many problems.
感恩是摆脱痛苦最好的方式。感恩可以解决许多问题。
Gratitude gives us stress free happy life and I am sure like me you all also want stress free happy life.
感恩带给我们极其自由的，幸福的生活，而且我相信你们大家也和我一样，期待一种极其自由的，幸福的生活。
When I read on that time I thought to share this with you guys. So lets practice it and he a happy life.
每当我回想那段时光，我都想要把这一切分享给你们。所以把这些道理付诸行动，去拥有幸福的人生。
优秀的英语散文:如何礼貌而坚决地拒绝别人
For each working person, the scarcest resource is your daily time.
对于每个职场人来说，最稀缺的资源就是你每天的时间了。
You may feel like that you do not he enough hours in the day, only endless things to do, and you can always find more things waiting for you to do.
时间总是不够用，事情总是做不完，而且你总能发现还有更多的事情会来找上你。
Of course, some of these things are not part of your job, such as other colleagues asking for your help or bosses making new demands.
当然，其中有些事情并不是你分内的，比如别的同事找你帮忙、上司提出了新需求。
How can we reasonably refuse them?
如何才能合理地拒绝他们呢?
In fact, there has been a mature methodology for this matter since long ago.
其实这件事早就有了成熟的方法论。
Just by doing the following three steps, you can usually make yourself and the other person fortable while refusing them.
只需做到这3步，通常你就能在拒绝的同时让双方都感到心安理得。
Step 1: Listening.
第一步：倾听
Its not simply hearing what the other person is saying. You he to literally stop what youre doing, and carefully listen through what they say.
不是让你单纯听见对方讲什么，而是真的停下你手上的事，然后认真听对方把事情说完。
Even if your time is limited, it is best for you to do so.
即使你时间紧迫，也最好这么做。
The point is to let the other person see that you are willing to help, and let them understand that you already know their needs.
重点是让对方看得出你愿意帮忙，并且让对方明白你已经知道了他们的需求。
In this way, even if you eventually refuse them, they will understand that you are not ailable, instead of not willing to help.
这样一来，即使你最终拒绝了对方，他们也会知道你是真的没时间，而不是单纯地不想帮忙。
In addition, this willing-to-help attitude is also a manifestation of leadership; if colleagues ask you for help, it shows that they think you are a reliable person.
另外，这种愿意帮忙的态度也是一种领导力的体现;如果有同事愿意开口请你帮忙，那说明他们认为你是个靠得住的人。
In this case, choosing to listen can strengthen their goodwill and trust in you.
在这种情况下，选择倾听能加强他们对你的好感与信赖。
Step 2: Start with Conclusion when Refusing
第二步：拒绝的时候先说结论
There is a saying goes like People tend to judge others by results, and themselves by motives.
有句话叫：人们总是用结果来评判别人，而用动机来评判自己。
This principle can also be applied to daily conversations.
这个道理在平常的对话中也是成立的。
We all hope that other people will e to a conclusion quickly, but when we speak, we instinctively start from the beginning of the story.
我们都希望别人快点说结论，但自己讲话的时候却总是本能地从头说起。
This way of speaking is not good for munication, because the other person usually does not he so much patience to hear you finish your speaking, and by the time you e to the conclusion, their attention has long gone.
这样的说话方式是非常不利于沟通的，因为对方通常没有那么多耐心听你讲完，当你说到结论的时候，他们的注意力早就消散了。
If you want to refuse somebody, just tell them NO, and then explain the reasons why.
如果你要拒绝对方，就先直接告诉对方不行，然后再讲为什么不行。
Step 3: Provide an Alternative Solution
第三步：提供备用方案
Maybe you really dont he the time to listen to the other persons request. For example, you he to get off work on time that day and the work at hand is urgent.
或许你当时真的没有时间听对方的要求，比如，你当天必须准时下班而手头的工作又很急。
In situations like this, dont just tell the other person that you dont he the time. Instead, you should give them a time when you would be ailable. For example, you may say Sorry, I really dont he the time right now. I he to get off work on time. Is it OK if we talk tomorrow morning?
这个时候不要劈头盖脸地告诉对方你没时间，而是向对方提供一个可行的时间，例如：抱歉，我现在真的没时间，等下必须准时下班，明早OK吗?
In addition, if you he finished listening to the other persons needs and finally choose to refuse him, you can also remend him a person whom you feel can help him.
另外，如果你已经听完了对方的需求，而最终选择拒绝他，也可以向他推荐一个你觉得可以帮到他的人。
In this way, although you refused him, he still can feel your support.
这样一来，虽然你拒绝了对方，但依旧让他们感受到了你的支持。
In a word, refusal is inevitable, but the way of refusal is optional.
总而言之，拒绝是不可避免的，而拒绝的方式是可以选择的。
An inappropriate refusal may cause great harm to your working life.
一次唐突的拒绝可能会给你的职场生活带来很大的伤害。
An artistic refusal, on the other hand, may lead you to some unexpected benefits.
而一次艺术性的拒绝则能帮你获得很多意想不到的好处。
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